wats fair and wats not??

hi guys...
yesterday was democracy day in Nigeria, and it was sposed to b a day of reflecting on the ideals of democracy e.t.c
i hope those of us in Naija were able to relax??
i wanna talk about wat we consider fair or not fair!!! from who u ask??
well from a buddy we all know>.."LIFE!!!
he gives to u wat u ask from him..yeah!!
ave u noticed that the phases are faster than they used to b? there was a time wen it was like evry1 around u was at the same place, but now....the few u keep in touch with are not all on the same level and sum of us just want to blame life and economy for wat is happenin to us..
truth is U ARE THE MAJOR FACTOR OF WAT HAPPENS TO U!!!
its gigo:: garbage in--garbage out!!
so try today to put in just a lil more effort and see ow it turns out..
nobody can make u blive sumthn without ur approval..so stop blaming pple,situation, or circumstance and take a stand that ur joy or wateva happens to u will not determine ur overall disposition>>
talk to u later

...so fast!!!

what is so fast abi??
i recently accesed my nephew again and was taken aback at the changes in him..
not that pple dont feel the same way about me esp. my folks friends!!!! everytime we meet, they are always sayn "u ave grown o!!" as if they avent grown!!!
but my point is that there was a time when i crawled and then i started walkin and runnin'..
very soon weddin bells wuld start ringin all ova..
TIME IS MOVING my PPLE!!!
wateva u find in ur hands to do, do it well...cos u wont always be there!!
how are u guys today?? at the moment, i am workin on a project thats really takin time, but i still wanted to holla at my peeps..
y'all ave a gud day!!!

...gentleness/aggression...meeknes/humility

for a while now folks..., i've been struggling with sum lethargy..
i realised much later that there i a lot wrong with this time of ours!!
we are in the microwave period..evry1 wants evrythn and right now...
but we ave to realise that anythn worthwhile takes time..yeah!! TIME!!!
we dont like hearin that...
now gentleness as against aggression is sumthn really misplaced..cos to pple, being gentle is akin to being a "mugun"!!! but the truth is that gentleness accorgin to C.S Lewis is havin an inner strength that doesnt shout or loud, but in the end emerges the winner
humility as against meekness is also confused, i think meekness is when there is power in ur hands, but u are still in control of it and ur senses..simply put
meekness is a form of humility that a person has wen he/she has power at their disposal and weild it with absolute humility
when there is no power, one cant exactly be said to be meek!!!! cos wat can he/she do??
i hope you get??
my advice today is that lets discipline ourselves so much that wen u ave made urself right, the right things will come ur way..
ave a gr8 week....

::Life::!!!!! "wat will u be remembered for"??

aiiiight!!
so sorry its been a while that i've sent any post..
this is where i pour my thots and the little stuff i've noticed about this LIFE!!!
today i realise that we are so fragile so for those of us who think we ave all the time in the world to nurse quarrels and all!!
or to even indulge in a lil habit of ours!!
i tell u that we dont ave all that time in the world to do all that. .
yesterday wen i was goin home, the bus i took was looking quite alrite to me, so i boarded it..
we narrowly escaped bein crushed twice b4 i got to where i alighted..it was so scary that as we got down, a man shouted "praise the Lord"!! and evrybd responded..now i wasnt afraid, tho m'heart skipped several beats..but i just had one peace that i wouldnt die..
so i thot that wat if the accidednt actually hapenned..at most pple wuld talk about it 4 a day..close friends wuld mourn for a while and even family wuld mourn for a longer time, but LIFE goes on.
i challenge u to better ave sumthn u are living for, and to also be ready for anythn cos this life is so short, live peaceably with all men, live for a reason and make impact cs after a man dies, wat reamains is the amount of impact he has made...
"wat will u be remembered for"??
take care my people....

::Life::!!!!! "wat will u be remembered for"??

aiiiight!!
so sorry its been a while that i've sent any post..
this is where i pour my thots and the little stuff i've noticed about this LIFE!!!
today i realise that we are so fragile so for those of us who think we ave all the time in the world to nurse quarrels and all!!
or to even indulge in a lil habit of ours!!
i tell u that we dont ave all that time in the world to do all that. .
yesterday wen i was goin home, the bus i took was looking quite alrite to me, so i boarded it..
we narrowly escaped bein crushed twice b4 i got to where i alighted..it was so scary that as we got down, a man shouted "praise the Lord"!! and evrybd responded..now i wasnt afraid, tho m'heart skipped several beats..but i just had one peace that i wouldnt die..
so i thot that wat if the accidednt actually hapenned..at most pple wuld talk about it 4 a day..close friends wuld mourn for a while and even family wuld mourn for a longer time, but LIFE goes on.
i challenge u to better ave sumthn u are living for, and to also be ready for anythn cos this life is so short, live peaceably with all men, live for a reason and make impact cs after a man dies, wat reamains is the amount of impact he has made...
"wat will u be remembered for"??
take care my people....

::Life::!!!!!

..this mornin'..

Hi!!!! just got in and thot to drop another sumthn b4 the day's job starts..
i was talkin about the rat race thing yesterday and just b4 i continue, i want to say that wateva u do consistently and continuosly becomes a habit....and be careful wat habits u are making cos u'll probably pass that down to the next generation and think about the impact of that "habit"!!!!!
wu says habits are hard to break?? i'm afraid its true!!! but truth is that it is possible...
so get out of that habit and get into a new one k??
gotta go. mayb i'll be back later 2day for anoda "lil sumthn"!!!
ave a swell and God-motivated day.

sumthn i read!!

Good morning folks!!
...just wanted to share a lil sumthn i read yesterday..i get home around 8.00 and i force myself to read a lil sumthn each nite b4 i go to bed..
so here are yesternite's excerpts::
ave u noticed that evrywhere esp. lagos, there is a lot of hurrying?? pple do a lot but at the end of the day, there's little to show 4 it!!
ITS A RAT RACE!!!!...ow do u get out of it?? well 4 starters..
being a doer not a dreamer: m not sayn u shldnt dream, but after all's been said and not done, more has truely been said and not DONE!!!
Effective time management: mondays to fridays is alwways busy, saturdays are too short, and sundays are for church and the cycle goes on and on...so ow do u improve?? try create time either b4 u sleep or early in the morn..and it wuld amaze u that if we actually scrutinize wat we do thru the week, u'd realise that sum of our activities are not necessary.
...gotta do sum work now..
will be back to give sum more later...ave a good day

::a lil sumthn

aiight!!! people.. i sat in the bus beside a woman today and when it was time to collect my change, i was not given the exact amount, so i didnt collect it and suddenly the woman was all over me saying "take that one first e.t.c" i almost shouted at her cos she was really over me..
but i refrained..on alighting, i noticed that she was pregnant!!! wats my point?? i think that even b4 we give pple wat we think is due to them in terms of replies, lets just chill a bit..u neva know, they might be "pregnant"!!

::welcome y'all::

...okay!! on this blog, we're goin to be examining sum stuff that pertains to ::manhood::(not necessarily sex!!) ::family:: business:: ::culture:: and ow it pertains to living..
i'll try and equip the blog from time to time so that pple who are hungry for info..wuld get satisfied.."a lil"
...........stay with me.